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The ACEs movement in the time of Trump

 

 As with any remarkable change, the 2016 presidential election, a swirl of intense acrimony that foreshadowed current events, actually produced a couple of major opportunities for the ACEs movement. It stripped away the ragged bandage covering a deep, festering wound of classicism, racism, and economic inequality. This wound burst painfully, but it’s now open to the air and sunlight, the first step toward real healing. The second opportunity is how the election and its aftermath are engaging more Americans from many different walks of life. The election brought out people who hadn’t voted in years; its aftermath has engaged people who’d counted on someone else to do their citizenship work for them. All these people — all of us — now have an opportunity to work together to solve our most intractable problems. That knowledge is embodied in the science of adverse childhood experiences.

The divide we start from is stark: an Electoral College that chose Donald Trump to be president by a vote of 306 to 232, and the voters who chose Hillary Clinton by a nearly three-million vote margin (65,844,610 to 62,979,636).

So, here we are with an administration, whether you agree with its policies or not, that often uses bullying to try to get its way instead of respectful negotiation, responds to decisions it doesn’t like with threats instead of respectful disagreement, describes events it doesn’t like by saying they didn’t happen, and is enacting some policies that harm children and families. Those actions are not a matter of being merely “politically incorrect”.

ACEs science is clear: bullying, losing a parent (to divorce, separation or deportation), emotional abuse, racist or religious discrimination, physical abuse and witnessing others being hurt — along with several other types of adversity — damage the structure and function of children’s brains, which can lead to them becoming unhealthy adults who may harm themselves or other people, or help other people.

If their adverse experiences are unrelenting, children live much of their lives in survival mode, responding to their world by fighting, by being frozen into inaction by fear, or by fleeing. They can’t learn as well as those who haven’t been traumatized and they don’t form healthy relationships because they have trouble trusting. Children’s health suffers in two ways: The over-production of cortisol damages their immune response system, leading to illness and chronic diseases that can affect them immediately or emerge when they’re adults. These diseases include asthma, obesity, cancer, heart disease, autoimmune diseases, etc. And to cope with the anxiety, depression, frustration, anger, etc. caused by toxic stress from ACEs, children grow into adults who drink too much alcohol or become addicted to other drugs or activities such as shopping, or who overeat, rage, engage in thrill sports, and even overachieve (workaholism), all of which can also contribute to poor health.

Depending on the number of these ACEs, the duration and when they occurred in a child’s life, the nurturing that children who experience ACEs receive when they’re growing up, or the healing that they experience when they’re adults, these same ACEs can trigger adults. It can throw them back into reliving those same experiences virtually, with the same fight, flight or freeze responses, and, in absence of healthy behaviors, the same harmful coping behaviors. Adults carry these behaviors with them to shape their work, school, children, and community environments. And the cycle continues. 

As we progress through these next few years, this knowledge about ACEs science helps us in two ways:

First, it helps us understand that our responses of fight, flight, or fear to current bullying, threats, and/or humiliation are normal and expected if we’ve had those experiences in our childhood. It helps us recognize that anger, though useful to motivate, will harm us if we don’t move through it to constructive – not destructive — action. It’s important to recognize that appeasing is also a common response to threat (think family violence situations where spouses must protect children and thus cannot fight, freeze or flee), and thus some people are afraid to challenge authority because of economic circumstances (a family to support, health care coverage, etc.).

And the dizzying confusion that many people feel when the administration says that events did not occur, when evidence of those events are in front of the world’s eyes in photos or verifiable data, is normal because parents or caregivers often tell children that what they experienced (sexual abuse, physical abuse, etc.) didn’t really happen to them, and they are forced to live in an unreality of someone else’s lies, often for years.

Second, the knowledge is also a potent reminder that ACEs are not only an issue for people living in poverty, but for people of all economic classes, something to which the ACEs movement and research hasn’t paid much attention lately. The consequences aren’t fully understood yet, but we may be experiencing them now. The original CDC-Kaiser Permanente ACE Study clearly demonstrated that ACEs occur across all economic sectors, with 12 percent of that cohort of 17,000 mostly white, college-educated, middle and upper-middle class having 4 or more ACEs. We know that high ACE scores can result in physical and mental health consequences. We know that the phrase “hurt people hurt people” emerged from the realization that most people who’ve committed violent crimes have high ACE scores. 

Hurt people hurt people on many levels, however, including enacting policies and legislation that are contrary to the science, because many people with high ACE scores in the middle and upper socio-economic classes end up as community leaders, including judges, teachers, principals, mayors, newspaper publishers, CEOs of companies, senators, representatives, and presidents. They create zero-tolerance schools, incarcerate children for minor offenses, enact policies that wait to intervene to offer help to troubled families until abuse has occurred, then cause further trauma by removing children from parents; incarcerate people for being addicted to drugs; deport parents who are not a threat to public safety and separate them from their children; even manufacture false threats in order to declare wars in which thousands of brave soldiers are killed or injured, and in which thousands families and hundreds of communities suffer unimaginably.

Most of those policies have been developed by people who didn't know about ACEs science. Our culture is based on the belief that people can only change their unhealthy, criminal or unwanted behavior if they are punished, blamed and/or shamed. However, this new knowledge provided by ACEs science clearly shows that understanding, nurturing and helping people heal themselves works better. We’re seeing the creation of trauma-informed and resilience-building schools that eliminate expulsions and where kids’ test scores and grades increase, trauma-informed pediatric practices and primary care clinics where parents learn parenting skills and visits to the ER drop 30 percent, trauma-informed judges and courts where recidivism drops to nearly zero, trauma-informed businesses and self-healing communities where people are healthier, happier, hospital visits decrease, juvenile crime decreases and health insurance rates drop. In fact, name a sector, and there’s an ACEs science pioneer showing that this new knowledge can actually be used to create organizations and systems that nurture people to bring out the best in them, and solve our most intractable problems.

Until they learned about ACEs science, many of those ACEs pioneers themselves supported policies based on blame, shame and punishment. Understanding ACEs science often takes some time to assimilate, however. People have to apply the knowledge to change the understanding of their own lives before they can apply it to their family, work or community lives. That can be a challenge, because many people are reluctant to re-examine their turbulent childhoods, even if it means that discomfort is a door to healing.

The spread of knowledge about ACEs sciences is still in its infancy, so we’re still functioning in a world where we are guided — consciously or subconsciously —by our ACEs. It seems as if people with high ACE scores go in one of two general directions: We see the world as a place of suffering that needs healing, encourage people to work together to solve problems, and believe that the world works better without conflict than with it. Or we see the world as a dark and dangerous place where carnage is rampant, problems are everywhere, and they are solved by identifying and defeating enemies. And if enemies do not present themselves, we who see the world as a dangerous place will create them.

What can the ACEs community do? 

  1. We can be inclusive and listen to each other’s stories. Most of us have experienced childhood adversity. Many of us, way too much of it. We’re all breathing the same ACEs air; we’re all swimming in the same ACEs ocean, no matter what our politics, cultural background, gender, place of birth, etc. Carl Sagan, the popular astronomer and astrophysicist, said: “In the way that skepticism is sometimes applied to issues of public concern, there is a tendency to belittle, to condescend, to ignore the fact that, deluded or not, supporters of superstition and pseudoscience are human beings with real feelings, who, like the skeptics, are trying to figure out how the world works and what our role in it might be. Their motives are in many cases consonant with science. If their culture has not given them all the tools they need to pursue this great quest, let us temper our criticism with kindness. None of us comes fully equipped.

  1. Most of us don’t have the ear of a national leader, so we can throw our energies into changing our own communities to become self-healing. The kind of progress that we humans have made over the last two centuries toward ensuring universal human rights is stunning. Two hundred years ago, three out of four people walking this Earth lived out their lives in various types of slavery indigenous to every continent; most children worked instead of attending school; women were regarded as the property of their husbands or fathers. The ACEs movement is a logical extension to flattening barriers to people’s freedom and futures, as well as between and among people so that we can create communities in which all people thrive. But we have to make sure we’re not ignoring anyone, and our country has, on a national level and within our communities. We can build bridges that unite everyone in the community to embrace a common respect for each other and a common purpose. This includes Republicans, Democrats, Libertarians; rich, middle-class, poor; urbanites, rural residents, suburbanites; all religions; all ethnicities and races; all abilities; all genders; all ages. Living Room Conversations is a great way to start building those bridges – it has more than 50 ready-to-discuss topics with conversation ground rules and a format than ensures everyone gets a chance to speak.

  1. We can support local journalism, and encourage the reporters and editors who serve our communities to report as much about solutions as they do about problems. When they report about local problems, we can encourage them to look for communities that have figured out solutions so that they can provide information about how we might fix things locally. We can support the national media that does the heavy lifting on keeping us informed by reporting about an administration that seems, so far, to be comfortable with not providing people with accurate information, so that we don’t have to live in an unreality of its choosing. And we can encourage the national media to report as much about solutions as they do problems, too. James Fallows, an editor at The Atlantic, reported that surveys consistently show that most people are optimistic about the future of the communities in which they live, but not the nation. That disconnect is partly because we’re exposed to a more even distribution of successes and failures through local events and reporting, but journalism at a national level is stuck in reporting mostly about conflict and corruption. Our view of the world is shaped by what we read and hear, so if what we read and hear is 90% about how messed up things are, well, how can we think otherwise? As Fallows noted: “Yes, residential and educational segregation are evident across the country. Yes, police violence is more visible than ever before. But people in Michigan and Mississippi and Kansas were more willing to start confronting these injustices locally than nationally. The same was true of immigration. In our travels we observed what polls also indicate: The more a community is exposed to recent immigrants and refugees, the less fearful its people are about an immigrant menace. We heard no lusty “Build a wall” cheers in California or Texas or other places where large numbers of outsiders had arrived.”

  1. As my dear friend Robin reminded me last week: We can keep breathing through our hearts. In other words, we in the ACEs movement have to walk the talk. A salient metaphorical question, another friend of mine said is important to ask, is “Who pushed Donald Trump’s face down into the snow?” We know that, no matter whether someone has grown up in poverty or wealth, experiencing ACEs can shape them into having such a dark view of the world that empathy has been constricted into a tiny part of their soul. It’s still there, and can be retrieved if they are willing, but it doesn’t frame that person’s daily interactions. Our work is to understand that, and to do our best to create healthy communities, systems and organizations that support healthy families so that children grow up to be happy, healthy and engaged in creating open and thriving communities instead of to be distrustful, belligerent and determined to build walls, virtual or otherwise.

This new knowledge about human behavior — ACEs science — is basic and revolutionary. It’s basic because it helps us understand what works and doesn’t work to change human behavior: Blame, shame and punishment, around which our systems are organized to change human behavior, whether criminal or unsafe or unhealthy, don’t work. Understanding, nurturing and helping people help themselves do. And it’s revolutionary because it offers real hope, based on some remarkable data from pioneers in the movement, that this new knowledge can help us solve our most intractable problems.  

Perhaps there’s an opportunity to educate President Trump and the people who surround him, and the current leaders in Congress about ACEs science. Perhaps not. What we know we can do is change our own communities. But we have to make sure we’re not ignoring anyone, as we have been. ACEs science teaches us that we can work together, and make sure nobody’s left out, that there are no "deplorables", and that we can open a door to healing for everyone who needs it. Just as our real national infrastructure is in sore need of repair, so is our virtual national infrastructure. By repairing it at the community level and integrating ACEs science to create self-healing communities, we can change the nation so it is self-healing, too, one that is led by healers.

And one more thing: ACEs science showed us very clearly that there is no “them and us”. We’re all in this together. We’re all human; our responses to ACEs are human, i.e., the same; only the expression is different. “Together” is a tough road though, and can be extraordinarily uncomfortable, even terrifying, in its strangeness. It’s so much easier to resolve conflict by taking the traditional roads of gossiping, talking trash, yelling, bullying, hitting, shooting, locking up, running away, ignoring, not getting involved, excluding…. 

Oh, right. None of those things work. They’re what brought us to where we are today.  

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Some think the scariest part of a horror movie is the monster. I think the scariest part is when people try to convince others that the monster exists and no one believes them. For many who have experienced ACEs, I suspect there is a big challenge in getting others to acknowledge that things even happened to you and are significant in your life. Too often, the response is, "It's not important, get over it."

As your article suggests, the current situation provides all of us with an opportunity to learn a lesson in empathy. Some of us are now experiencing what it feels like to be casually dismissed and trivialized, and perhaps we will develop a better appreciation of the folks who felt their needs and concerns were similarly overlooked for many years.

Whether it's your patient or the entire country, it helps to go past "Why are they crazy?" and get to "What is your pain?"

Changes in my students have most often come after shared joy...laughter leading to hope, hope leading to faith in self, then to the courage to try.  The process is based on a belief in possibilities; it is getting harder and harder to fight the bleakness in the world...

I needed this article.  Thank you.

I appreciate much about Ron Arnold’s comments on Jane Steven’s essay on “The ACEs movement in the time of Trump,” especially his view that the strength of the ACEs movement comes from its organic nature and its emphasis on education, open questioning and inclusiveness, rather than mandates. The reality is that policies and programs at all levels of government impact childhood adversity and a vital part of the ACEs movement should be involvement in decision making process—evaluating how policies and programs impact ACEs, expressing support or opposition, and offering alternatives.

While I agree that politicizing ACEs is unwise (and unnecessary since the buy-in for ACEs science has proven to be nonpartisan), the call to action by Jane Stevens is to get involved locally and be open to every point of view—the very opposite of pointing fingers and excluding diverse opinions.

Jane,

Thank you for this post of hope.  We are all in this together regardless of our political views.  As a result of political discord, people are waking up and taking note.  Painful though it may be, as you wrote, the door is open and it's an excellent time to promote information about ACES in schools and communities.  Thank you as always for your excellent words.

Melissa Sadin                                                                                                                      Director, Creating Trauma Sensitive Schools                                                 Attachment & Trauma Network                                                                                    888-656-9806                                                                               melissa@attachtrauma.org

“Creating trauma-sensitive schools and empowering trauma-focused educators    

Politicizing ACES will not do anyone any favors nor promote the cause.

Here’s why – the folks that voted for Trump felt bullied by Obama and “the left.” And now – the folks on the left feel bullied by Trump and “the right”. (Controlled opposition is the clever means by which the ‘two’ parties maintain power and control. They’re simply two wings of the same vulture if you will.)  

When you look at government and laws and boil them down to their bare essence – it is essentially a monopoly of “legitimate” force. To enact policies and laws regarding / tie funding to ACES might seem like a good idea to jump start things – but the organic stuff that is happening right now is FAR better. As soon as legislation is introduced, force is initiated – even if it's implied. It’s no longer voluntary and when government takes a role – it risks becoming less participatory by every day folks – ESPECIALLY when you go further up the ladder.  

I worry when I see posts like these that appear to point fingers. If TIC is going to become a universal practice – it must be educational, open to questioning, and voluntary.

At least from my humble point of view . . . .

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