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How my irresponsible choices led to excellent parenting - Maine

"Maybe we didn’t go about it in the right way, as my commitment to staying home with my daughters brought us to a financial crisis. But my gut told me my daughter needed peaceful one-on-one contact with me, a lot of communication and both emotional and intellectual stimulation. It turns out my gut was telling me what science has shown to be true. Disregarding the financial costs, I gave to my daughters what they needed for their growing brains....

“Healthy early experiences are essential because, by age three, almost 80 percent of neural construction is complete, and much of the foundation for lifelong learning is set,” says Former Attorney General Steve Rowe, an advocate for high-quality care for Maine’s youngest children. For healthy brain development, Rowe says, “Children need nurturing, stimulating and stable relationships with supportive adult caregivers as well as a sense of safety and security.”

"What I wanted for my children, but couldn’t financially afford to give them, was exactly what they needed. So I did it anyway...."

http://bangordailynews.com/2013/03/06/opinion/contributors/how-my-irresponsible-choices-led-to-excellent-parenting/

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I missed this when you first posted it, Chris - so glad to see it. Family policies in the U.S. do not support parents who prefer to care for their own children--spending on child care services is discriminatory, supporting only the care provided by someone other than a parent. My organization, Family and Home Network, calls for Inclusive Family Policies - to end the discrimination against parent-provided care.

In public policy debates, we hear a lot about the needs of "working families" (an often poorly-defined term but most often used to describe families in which all parents are in the workforce, with children in child care). Advocacy for "working families" is supported by millions of dollars of contributions from corporations with an interest in keeping parents in the workforce--including for-profit child care corporations. Providing economic support to all parents of infants -- as Finland and many other countries do -- gives parents more choice and flexibility to find what works best for their infant and themselves.

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