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‘We are just destroying these kids’: The foster children growing up inside detention centers [Washington Post]

 

Photo credit and caption:  Heard leaves the courtroom at the Boone County Courthouse in Madison. He hopes to train to be a tattoo artist. (Sarah L. Voisin/The Washington Post)
Dec. 30, 2019

Though he's never been convicted of a crime, Geard Mitchell spent part of his childhood in a juvenile detention center, at times sleeping on cement floors under harsh fluorescent lights left on through the night during lockdowns.

He attended high school by clicking through online courses and had “no one to talk to but the walls” because of restrictions on phone calls. He attended group therapy with teens accused of rape, when what he really needed was grief therapy to process his mother’s death.

Daily life became so torturous that Geard scratched up his face to look like a methamphetamine addict, hoping that “they would transfer me to somewhere more normal, like rehab.”

“I knew it was wrong to lie,” said Geard, 17, sitting in a courthouse in this town of shuttered coal fields and boarded-up shops. “But I was locked up with kids who were rapists and murderers. One kid even beat up a judge like it was nothing. That’s just not me.”

Geard’s only crime was being a foster child in an era when a surging number of biological parents are falling into the grips of drug addiction and child welfare systems are struggling with a shortage of foster parents. In hasty attempts to address the problem, case workers and courts have been funneling children into crowded emergency shelters, hotels, out-of-state institutions and youth prisons — cold, isolating and often dangerous facilities not built to house innocent children for years.

“We are just destroying these kids. They’re warehoused into emergency shelters, out-of-state institutions and juvenile detention centers, which can cause lifelong emotional trauma — their childhoods spent segregated from the outside world,” said Marcia Lowry, executive director of A Better Childhood (ABC), a nonprofit child advocacy organization.

To read the entire article by Emily Wax-Thibodeaux, click here.



 

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Carey,

Your idea of “Nurture Camps” is brilliant!

Sadly, we all pay the price for failed policies and not properly addressing this human health crises is, well, not very bright, among other things!!!

What about the Millions of (still) vacant houses, from the 08 crash? House them there with volunteer house parents and mentors who can be roll-models for these kids. This would provide a group setting for cost efficient housing and delivery of support services! How good would that be for kids to live in a safe and nurturing homelike environment? 

I hope this helps!

Fred

 

Thanks for posting, Elizabeth. 


As a nation, and a species, sometimes American humans are damned inhumane. 

What would it be like if all the wonderful summer camps were to be called into action, given supports and paid what the private prisons are paid, and they helped out by affording kids “lost in the cracks” with safe, stable, nurturing environments that support relationship and the creation of positive childhood experiences?  Surely the facilities could be insulated and prepped quickly, as this IS a national emergency. There are enough volunteer and retired educators; students in colleges of education who need practicums and internships to help create schools in the “Nurture Camps” that could prevent so many mental and physical health problems. 

It’s a thought. And I know some people will think this is a ridiculous thought.

AND we need to think about how to leverage every asset to prevent the kind of pain and trauma Geard has gone through. Surely this idea — or some others we could come up with — would be better than what Geard has endured. 

I bet there are enough summer camps and camp directors available to make a huge difference. It only takes one caring adult to change the life of a child.

Summer camps are a huge industry! 

I’m sending this post to someone who knows people in the summer camp industry. Who knows? Between 4-H and church camps, enrichment camps, sports camps and ones for the arts, sciences, sailing, and just plain fun, well...

And I know it is not as simple as rounding people up and putting them in housing.  But at least they would be in housing and not cages.  With caring people who know how to interact with kids and not prison guards who have little or no training.

If we mobilize for peace the way we mobilize for war, perhaps we will help prevent wars in the future. Especially the wars within the minds of hurting children who cannot understand why they are so miserable, why they are being treated like disposable people.  

Every. Child. Is. Precious.

Carey

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