Thanks for a fascinating conversation on an issue that we too have struggled with in my organization where we frequently include information on ACEs and other trauma. Several years ago I tried to capture the things we attempt to do when providing training on trauma and trauma informed practice in a short paper called: Walking the Walk: Modeling Trauma Informed Practice in the Training Environment. One of the references for that paper Black, T. (2006). Teaching trauma without traumatizing. Traumatology, 266-71 was very helpful to me.