I totally agree. Strong sobriety is so important before this stuff is tackled. I have 6 years, my sister has 5 and our brother has 30 thanks to AA. It has been a life saver for my family members that have chosen recovery. I feel like a sobriety is like getting a bachelors in recovery and ACA/emotional sobriety is going for your masters! My ACES score is 8 so my goal is to exceed my life expectancy of 60 (I turned 55 yesterday 🤞).