In June, i found out that my accountant did not file my corporate taxes for 7 years. He lied to me about my owing anything to CRA here in Toronto. I caught him in a lie, and spoke to the Revenue Tax. I have spent years working on my own personal work, healing and undrestanding in deeper terms how the impact of my life growing up affected me from a physical and emotional standpoint. Using body centered approaches. It seems that for me as i grew up in class priviledge that most of my issues has centered around money. This is at it's height... As someone who has experienced childhood sexual abuse and violence in my family of origin, most of my work has been share my narrative as someone who inherited money and how money was used as power and control. I have been sitting with some deep questioning as to how i did not pick up anything unusal i believed him and in return through his lies and deceit it brings me right back to some old trauma time. How does one tell that the person one is working with is telling the truth.
I need to rely on the professionals especially around the area of finances. I also have a learning disability and he was aware of this. I have hired a lawyer here in toronto to begin the complaint process for me, and i would like to do a civil law suit.
but i know that this could go on for years. I stopped blaming myself... but a large amount of funds has come out and now more money needed to hire the lawyer and make sure that all documents are in place. I think it would be important to offer a workshop for women who have to rely on professionals especially financial to look for the warning signs. He knew my history and still took great liberty...
I wonder when this kind of abuse will stop.... i have two great accountants now, who get it... but the cost has been emotionally based and i hope he will loose his licennce to practice.
thoughts from the community. ?